Sexual Harassment—in Hollywood, in the media, in Wall Street, in politics —everywhere it seems.
Who do these creeps think they are?
Where did they get the messages that they can do whatever they want to women, whenever they want?
Look at them. They’d never be mistaken for Cary Grant or George Clooney, as if it mattered.
So who are they?
They’re husbands, brothers, sons, fathers, bosses, big shots.
And who do they think we are?
Objects for their use?
No way.
We’re wives, mothers, daughters, sisters, co-workers, friends.
So let’s send them a new message.
You can’t treat women as objects.
You can’t dominate us.
You can’t threaten us.
You can’t hide.
Let’s stop feeling it’s our fault.
Let’s not let them damage us.
Let’s not let them hurt us.
Let’s not be silent.
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Goodbye until next time…
Hope your day turns out as well as I hope
(but doubt) mine will,
Gingy (Ilene)
Happened to me 50 + yrs ago., It’s despicable! However, after punching him in the gut, grabbing my coat, I stumbled out and walked to town and got a ride home. He lost his job the next morn at the radio station. And that was that. I think about it often and never allowed myself to be put in that position again. I have taught my 3 daughters to not to let men have the upper hand. You know when you shouldn’t have that drink or get that ride home if you use good common sense. And it helps to have a good right hook, wear heels, and still be a lady. Takes em’ by surprise. I’m not dwelling on it 50 yrs later. That will make you chronically ill in lots of ways
I think is time for women to not turn the other cheek and start some sexual overtures themselves. But the only problem is that the men might like it. Maybe we should start with handcuffs, get them all worked up and walk away.
Thanks for your thoughts. It’s not business as usual any more. There’s a lot we have to do, can do….
I don’t understand what makes these men not able to control themselves around women. What makes them think that they can just fondle, touch, harass us women? That’s my question. They have no control. I just don’t get it. It is a lack of respect and a lack of taking a woman seriously. It is the culture of the “good” old boys, nudge, nudge, wink, wink. Yes, the culture has to change. I am glad all of this is in the spotlight.
AMEN!!! #MeToo
Love you, girl. Keep on keepin’ on.
xo
Right on, Ilene! Cheers to strong women! Let’s not be silent!
you are the best
Glad the truth and lies and disrespect surfaced and moving forward may men
Realize that this kind of behavior needs to stop asap. It’s a learned behavior and
They need to rethink and change it. No one should have to be dehumanized or even harassed by this filthy way of controlling others. Grow up and be respectful.
Soup is on at my place. Healthy homemade veggie gf noodle soup. Yummy!
Stop over for a bowl.
Lov ya ,
Arlyne
You’re always right on.
I always gave women a chance with jobs and I don’t think any of them felt threatened by my behavior.
(I’m a man.)
You said it, Gingy! This is so important and we can’t stay silent any longer.